The best way to make him feel like he owns the place is to show him, rather than tell him. Make sure the kids and pets are quiet so he can enjoy his evening at home.
- You, as a mother, may teach and instill in them the disposition of warmth required to make a good first impression. Nobody likes to go back to a house that is full of issues. Prepare his favorite hot beverage, take his belongings, and arrange his bed with the clothes he plans to wear at home. As he’s sipping his drink, get the shower ready for him and remind the kids and the pets to stay quiet.
- During supper, ask him softly how his day was. Describe the day’s most amusing events to him. Stop moaning and whimpering. Instead, explain to him in a soft voice if there are problems you can’t solve on your own. To get a response from him, all you have to do is ask lovingly.
- Don’t shout at him or demand something. Because of his exhaustion, he can’t employ his mental faculties. A fight can break out if he gets angry and you don’t like his attitude. Remember that he is still human and feeling things just like you do.
- Treat him to a spa day every once in a while, so he can relax and feel like a king. Taking a day trip as a family or just the two of you would do wonders.
- Dress nicely for him and show your appreciation every day with a hug and a kiss.
You can’t possibly understand what he goes through on a daily basis until you put yourself in his position.