Life is full of ups and downs, and let’s be honest: even the toughest among us have moments when we wish someone would listen, or at least give us a hug. This is a common experience for the majority of us, and it highlights the significance of having a buddy who is supportive and understanding while we’re going through tough times.
Isn’t it true that we could use someone to provide us some joy on gloomy days? See the situation from their point of view for a change; what if you were the “friend” they were looking for? In what ways might you address their concerns? Can you guide them in the right direction? Would you rush to the area immediately to aid the people in need?
Even if we can’t be there in person, we may still show our support by calling or sending a message through a social networking site, email, or WhatsApp to let a close friend know that we are thinking of them and sending our love.
How to Handle Friendship Problems In Smart Way?
- Don’t be a nagging nanny and don’t repeat the “I told you so”; rather, be a friend who helps, listens, and confides in them. This wouldn’t help at all; in fact, it would place them in a sticky situation that would only make them feel worse about themselves and their worthiness to be loved. Counseling requires empathy and objectivity; this is not why he or she or they came to see you.
- You need to be an excellent listener and someone who can have a conversation without chiming in. It is important that people express themselves now because the situation is highly tense. A hug is physical medicine that soothes the nerves and puts the mind at ease, so that’s another good place to start. The next step is to sit down with the individual and provide them with a relaxing drink, such as water or fresh fruit juice. Caffeine and carbonated beverages have been shown to increase hyperactivity, so please refrain from offering them. Then, while holding their hands softly, look them in the eye as they talk. By showing your concern in this way, you can win the trust of the hurting person and open up a channel of communication with them.
- You should cease bringing up the past if this person is a buddy and you had prior knowledge that something would happen to them. Instead, you should just listen to them out, be there for them, and let them cry as much as they need to. Everyone, male or female, can benefit from letting out some tears and calming their nerves. When someone is crying, it’s appropriate to offer them a tissue and, if feasible, a hug.