Girls and guys can be best friends without having to be romantic partners.
Yet, most boys are uncomfortable approaching girls as potential friends. If this sounds like you, continue reading to learn more about how to make a connection with a lady and win her over as a friend. A lot of guys have a secret desire to be friends with the female they adore because they enjoy having conversations with her and think she’s very funny and interesting. Fun-loving, funny, and sweet gals who are down for a casual coffee date or movie night are always attractive to guys.
- Are you familiar with her interests, favorite hangouts, and her stance on a total stranger being one of her friends? So don’t go online or otherwise stalk her to learn this information; she’ll detest you to your core if she finds out, and it’s illegal anyhow. Most women wouldn’t feel at ease if a random guy approached them and asked to be their friend. But if the lady has seen you in the same place she does, or if you share mutual friends, that’s one less thing standing between you and a friend request.
- Consider the situation from her point of view to determine if she would like your company as a friend. Learn as much as you can about her by observing how she spends her time, what she eats, what she does for pleasure on the weekend, and where she goes. Find out where she sits in the classroom and move to be near her without overwhelming her.
- Don’t rush things now that you’ve smiled and made the initial move, especially if she seems to have welcomed you as a friend. Just focus on the here and now; get to know her better by chatting with her and taking things slow. Even if you are unable to communicate very effectively at first, showing her that you are someone who can laugh at his own mistakes and is comfortable with his own humanity is more important than worrying about getting it perfectly right from the get-go. This will get you more respect from her, and, as a bonus, girls despise showiness, so don’t bother trying to impress them. She needs a buddy, not a clown or a chauffeur, therefore there’s no need to dye your hair, get pierced, and drive a fancy car to be her pal.
- You should be gentle and respectful with her because she is a girl. Open the door for her, pull out a chair so she can sit comfortably at the restaurant, and maybe even walk her home to show her how much you care. Keep in mind that she will appreciate and trust you more if you do all that for her since she will feel more secure. Women adore men who can make them laugh and who can make them feel comfortable sharing a joke or two with their friends. Enjoy the wonderful times with her, make her laugh, have ice cream and pastries together, and pet a puppy when she asks sincerely.