After a breakup, if your ex wants you back, he won’t come out and say it, but he will act a specific way. Read his actions carefully, and you’ll see if he’s just appearing to be over you when he’s still pinning on you. But first, you need to determine unequivocally how you feel about him and whether or not you still want to be with your ex. Let’s compare the two states of being in contact or out of touch.
Your Ex Keeps in Touch with You
He may still be thinking about you and want you back if he calls you frequently for no apparent reason, texts you constantly, or sends you comments and messages on Facebook. But wait for him to initiate contact. Let him fess up to wanting you back. Knowing his level of sincerity is important.
He opens up about his own life
Does he confide in you about everything that’s happening in his life, down to the most intimate details? Even if he doesn’t say it directly, this is a hint that he misses you and wants you back. And it shows that he continues to have faith in your judgments and respects your opinion. In doing so, your ex is probably trying to indicate his dating status and let you know how much he still cares about you.
Shows genuine concern for you and consistently provides unwavering support
If he’s curious about what you’re up to in his life, he may constantly asking if you’re seeing anyone else. When he sees you with another person, does he feel possessive and try to get you to focus on him instead? This is how you know your ex wants you back but doesn’t want to admit it.
He tells you first about his life
Another indication that your ex wants you back is if he tells you first about important and exciting events in his life. It’s also a sign that he appreciates you and thinks highly of you. You should let him know how much you value your role as an important person in his life even after the split, but you shouldn’t be overly enthusiastic in his presence until he demonstrates similar sentiment.
Conclusion
Your ex still wants you back if he is on the fence about moving on with his love life and has expressed his ambivalence to you. It doesn’t matter if he denies it or not. He still cares and isn’t sure about anybody else if he goes on dates but doesn’t tell you about them out of fear of hurting your feelings. There will be occasions when he decides not to go on a second date with the female he went on a first one with because she did not meet his expectations.