You can always make your girlfriend be eager with excitement of seeing you all the time. Simply follow theses tips below:
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Encourage and support her
To encourage someone is one of the simplest forms of support. Keep reminding her that you have faith in her abilities and that you want her to find happiness in whatever she does. In moments when she feels like giving up, hearing encouraging words like “you can do that,” “it’s okay not to be okay,” or “you’re not alone” can give her the push she needs to do the things she really wants to do.
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Make time to spend exclusively with her
Giving her your undivided attention shows how much you value and cherish her. The excuse of being “too busy” is a fallacy; if spending time with someone is truly important to you, you won’t find an excuse not to do so.
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Give her a compliment
Your partner will value your praise more if it comes from you rather than a total stranger. The most memorable ones need not be the work of a skilled poet or be overly flattering to make her feel loved, but you don’t have to lie either. Instead, pick your words carefully and give an authentic compliment that isn’t overstated.
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Send her some love notes
Love notes to your girlfriend with phrases like “You look beautiful today” or “Your smile brightens my day” are a great way to express your feelings for her. It won’t take you more than a minute, and it’ll make her day.
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Surprise her
Girls enjoy being surprised, but they may not always be looking for large or expensive items. Instead, what they really want is some small act of kindness in the form of a pleasant surprise that will make them feel loved and cared for.
Pick up some roses or her favorite candy and surprise her with them. Feed her a delicious meal, either one you prepare or one you take to her. Given that girls enjoy spending time with their significant others, you could also arrange a group outing. No matter what you choose, though, remember to always give your all.
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Stay true to your word
You can make your girl feel loved by staying away from temptation and working on your relationship. Be careful not to look at other women with disdain; your girl will notice if you do. Don’t put yourself in a position to fail by spending time with someone you’re attracted to, either. Instead, focus on her and find creative ways to love your own family.
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Truly listen to her
Your ability to empathize with your girlfriend and hear her out will go a long way toward reassuring her that she is loved and valued. So, show interest in what she has to say by listening attentively, responding appropriately, engaging with the conversation, and never interrupting.
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Let her know how much you appreciate her
A simple “I love you” can make her happy, but showing her that you care through actions is even more powerful. Do some of the things I listed in point 3, or leave her little sweet notes like flowers or chocolates or a handwritten note. Don’t overlook the importance of holding her hand, kissing her and hugging her.
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Give her the due courtesy she deserves
Opening doors, pulling out chairs, and helping her carry things aren’t the only ways to show respect. Be the guy who, despite your differences in opinion, is still willing to listen to her thoughts and feelings, give her your honest opinion.